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It's up to you to take management of your brand instead of letting it manage you.
My biggest strength is being a fixer, a coach, and to do it with a determination to see it through to the end.
Attendees and students of 100% — A Life Approach will recognize the shadow of this habit: Being a rescuer in a drama triangle. It leads me to be insensitive, because I’m passionate about fixing instead of empathizing with compassion.
And now my biggest challenge to really embody the celebration I urge my clients to experience is to take time to focus on myself. Self-care for me is to get in touch with my needs, which ignoring always leaves me resentful as a persecutor (Drama Triangle reference). Self-care for me is to get in touch with reality, which ignoring by overworking leaves me confused as a victim (Drama Triangle reference).
Read MoreAny time you have been told to take an action (press a button, watch a video, listen to something, buy something, take a decision, followup, consider a concept, or subscribe) you have been presented with a call to action. This may have happened in a phone call from your friend, while looking at a website, while reading a post, while watching a show, or even while reading a cereal box. Find out how to make your very own ✨
Read MoreIs the fear of being judged, annoying, or being vulnerable from being visible to people whose attention you need? Your boss, your prospects, your potential customers, or even your friends and family?
Stop promoting yourself from a place of obligation and use that super power of overthinking in the way it’s meant to be used: Empathizing.
Read MoreThanks to your sharing and interest in my articles, I’ve been able to infuse all I learned from the 32 clients and 430 workshop attendees since khayrab.com launched into Personal Branding 101 happening in 7 DAYS! My clients and attendees have gained insight in speaking about themselves in a calm, aligned, and enjoyable way 🧘
Read MoreHere are three ways to see if your ego is hijacking your chance of true innovation through collaborative relationships.
“I will hurt for you”
You may decline help because you’re the strong one – it’s your identity. Asking someone else to struggle the way you do seems selfish at best. You may decline help because the feeling of someone thanking you is too good to give to someone else. It’s a popular myth that you can only get true recognition by struggling through weakness instead of serving from strengths.
“I can’t”
You may decline help because the effort of being the solution-person is too big a responsibility. The goal is too big and unwieldy for you to even start thinking about, so how in the world could you put into words what you’d need from others? This can also be tied to perfectionism where no one else can get to the standard that you know it should be. Obviously, you can’t trust anyone else with this.
“I told you so”
Once you give it a go and try to ask for help, you are disappointed and nothing got done. This always happens when someone else tries to get involved, it just isn’t right. Resentment, blame, and isolation bubbles up in you, keeping you in your comfort zone of lonely struggle.
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